Deposit Love This Thanksgiving: A Thankful Approach to Family

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10/13/20252 min read

a pumpkin and a sign on a table
a pumpkin and a sign on a table

Embracing Gratitude This Thanksgiving

Thanksgiving is that wonderful time of the year when we sit around a table overflowing with food, laughter, and warmth. It’s an occasion to express thankfulness, but it should also be a moment to reflect on how we cherish those we love the most. This year, let's not just fill our plates but also our hearts, particularly when it comes to our parents. It’s time to deposit our gratitude into their love account.

Understanding the Love Account

Think of your parents as having an invisible love account—one that has been nurtured since you took your first steps. Throughout our childhoods, we’ve been busy withdrawing love, relying on their unconditional support without even thinking about it. But just like any bank account, constant withdrawals without depositing can lead to a deficit. This Thanksgiving, let's make a conscious choice to start depositing love back into that account, ensuring it grows with interest.

How to Make Your Deposits

So, how do we begin this process of making deposits into our parents’ love accounts? It’s simpler than we think! Start with the small gestures: a heartfelt thank-you note, a surprise phone call just to check in, or simply spending quality time together. These actions may seem simple, but they can significantly impact your parents’ emotional ledger. Don’t wait for special occasions to express your love. Instead, create a habit of gratitude that encompasses your everyday interactions.

Furthermore, let’s acknowledge that there are many ways to express love. It doesn’t always have to be through words; sometimes, actions speak louder. Help them with chores around the house, or brighten their day with thoughtful gifts. Sharing cherished memories and highlighting how their love has impacted your life can be particularly rewarding. These are all meaningful deposits that cultivate an environment of love and appreciation.

This Thanksgiving, let’s challenge ourselves to consciously return to our parents the love they have given us throughout our lives. It’s time to act, to express our thankfulness not just through words, but through our actions. Make a promise to yourself to cultivate this habit beyond Thanksgiving. By continuously investing in that love account, you enrich your relationships not just with your parents, but with everyone around you.

This year, be thankful, but also remember to give back. Your love account with your parents doesn’t just deserve to be maintained—it should be thriving! Wishing you a wonderful Thanksgiving filled with love, gratitude, and delicious food. Let’s make it a memorable day of giving back as much as we receive!